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还是在很小的时候,我们就被父母和周围的亲戚朋友们许以重望:他们夸我们天姿聪慧,反应灵敏,口齿伶俐,勤快懂事。在此基础上,他们以他们受到的素朴的影响把一些深埋在心里的愿望加诸我们身上:希望我们能出人头地,能高居人上,能拔得头筹,能不同凡响。最后,所有的这些希望都植根于他们所能仰望到的最高度,与这些名词联系起来:跳出农门,做官,发财,修新房子,娶个好媳妇,等等,这些的总和,又与传统思想里那个害人不
At a very young age, we were respected by our parents and the relatives and friends around us: they praised us Tianz smart, responsive, articulate, diligent and sensible. On the basis of this, they put some of their deep-seated wishes on us with the plain influence they have undergone: we hope that we will excel in our work and excel in our work and excel in our work. Finally, all of these hopes are rooted in the highest levels they can look up and associate with these terms: jumping out of the farmhouse, becoming an official, making a fortune, renovating a house, marrying a good wife, etc. The sum of these, And the traditional idea that the victim is not