一个父亲,如果能脱离功利的“成败”观去评判儿子的抉择,他将会发现下一代人确实活得精彩。所谓经验,无法脱离产生它的环境和历史,时代每一天都在不停地进步,社会每一天都是崭新的,每天早上醒来,世界呈现给每一个人的,都是新鲜的面孔。在这样的日子面前,父辈的人生经验,是不是真的有用呢?事实上,在这一时刻,父辈和我们这一代人是站在同一起跑线上。他们留给我 If a father can judge his son’s choice without considering the “success or failure” of utilitarianism, he will find that the next generation does indeed have a wonderful life. The so-called experience can not be divorced from the environment and history that gave birth to it. The times are continuously progressing from day to day. Every day in society is brand new. Every morning, when the world is awakened to everyone, it is a fresh face. In the face of such a day, is not the father’s life experience really useful? In fact, at this moment, parents and our generation are on the same starting line. They leave it to me