常听见家长向老师诉苦:孩子不听话、任性、脾气大、娇气、没礼貌、懒惰等,这些家长要求老师帮助教育的同时,往往忽略了自己的家庭教育是否得当,是否和孩子的行为有关。家庭对孩子的思想和行为习惯的影响极其重要,父母的一言一行对孩子起着第一任教师的作用,如果在孩子身上发现了 Parents often hear the teacher complained of: children disobedient, capricious, temper, fragile, rude, lazy, these parents require teachers to help education at the same time, often ignore their own family education is appropriate, and whether the child’s behavior. The impact of the family on the child’s thoughts and behavior is extremely important. The parents’ words and actions play the role of the first teacher of the child. If the child is found