女儿在两三岁的时候,对使用工具产生了兴趣,尤其喜欢体验左右手操作时的不同感觉。有一次,女儿使用勺子时,我发现她不停地把勺子从左手换到右手,认真地比较左手和右手的感觉,最后才选择了一种较为舒适的方式来帮自己完成眼前的任务。类似的行为总会重复出现,而每当这时,我更愿意静静地在一旁观察,看她在身陷矛盾与困惑之中时,是如何通过自己的思考和努力来一步步理解问题并作出自己选择的。我想,这个过程对孩子和家长都是非常难得而 At the age of two or three, my daughter was interested in using a tool, especially enjoying the different sensations during left and right hand movements. Once, when my daughter used a spoon, I found that she kept changing her spoon from left to right and earnestly comparing her left and right hand feeling before finally choosing a more comfortable way to accomplish her immediate task. Similar behavior is always repeated, and whenever I do, I prefer to be quietly watching to see how she understands problems step by step through her own thinking and hard work when confined to conflicts and confusion Make your own choice. I think this process is very rare for both children and parents