编辑同志: 我有一个上高中的女儿。前不久,在一次家长会后班主任对我说,女儿和一位男同学有早恋迹象。我听后很惊讶。回到家,我想严厉地教训女儿一顿,没想到,她大声说没那回事。请问,我该怎么办? 江苏吴仪吴仪同志: 也许您的孩子被班主任误解了。请你心平气和地去调查原委,积极疏导,孩子心头的创伤是一定能治愈的。和您一样,我也有一个女儿,前一段时间她的班主任也向我反映了类似的情况。那还是在女儿迎考的最紧张的日子里。一向活泼开朗的她突然寡言少语,对音乐感起兴趣来。我想,孩子太紧张了,听听音乐,消除疲劳。谁知一连几天都是这样,孩子竟沉湎于其中了。 Editor’s Comrade: I have a daughter in high school. Not long ago, a class teacher said to me after a parent meeting that her daughter and a male classmate had signs of premature love. I am surprised after listening. When I got home, I wanted to teach my daughter severely. Unexpectedly, she cried aloud that it was not the case. May I ask, what should I do? Jiangsu Wu Yi Wu Yi Comrade: Maybe your child was misunderstood by the class teacher. Please calmly investigate the whole story, actively grooming, children’s heart trauma is sure to be cured. Like you, I also have a daughter, some time ago her head teacher also reflected to me a similar situation. That is still the most tense day in her daughter’s examination. She has always been lively and cheerful, she said a few words, interested in music. I think the child is too nervous, listen to music, eliminate fatigue. Who knows for a few days are the same, the children actually indulge in it.