凤飞和隔壁两岁多的男孩儿在家里玩。她拿着我的大瓶润肤乳问:“妈咪,我们可以抹这个吗?”我想了想:“好,只能抹一点点。”5分钟后,两人出现在我面前,凤飞一头一脸都是白色的润肤乳,小男生脸上也不少。两人显然一边抹润肤乳,一边照镜子,镜子上也是一大片润肤乳。我的第一反应是冲他们大声说:“不是告诉你只抹一点儿吗?为什么不听!”但我明白这样的结果,一定是战争爆发。所以我克制住了——他们只是孩子而已。我的关注点不再是责备和追究责任,而是寻找尊重孩子、尊重自己的解决方法。 Fong Fei and next door more than two years old boy playing at home. She took my big bottle of lotion and asked: “Mommy, can we wipe it?” “I thought for a long time: ” Well, only a little wipe. “Five minutes later, two people appeared on me In front of Fengfei a look of white lotion, a small boy face a lot. The two apparently wipe moisturizer, while looking in the mirror, the mirror is also a large lotion. My first reaction was to rush them to say loudly: ”Not telling you to wipe only a little, why not listen!" But I understand that such a result must have been a war. So I stopped - they were children. My concern is no longer blame and accountability, but to find ways to respect children and respect themselves.