作为父母,我们经常会冲到孩子前面,并且自认为这就是爱,这就是保护,这就是引导……事实果真如此吗?我们以为自己是在保护孩子,是在引导孩子,殊不知,我们强大的身躯很多时候会“霸道”地挡住孩子的心愿、孩子的爱好、孩子的情绪……当爱变成剥夺和牵绊,那便是控制了。所以,真正爱孩子的爸妈是能适时向后退的,毕竟教育原本就应该是以孩子为本的一件事。 As parents, we often rushed to the front of the children, and think that this is love, this is the protection, which is the guide ... ... the fact that true? We think they are protecting the child, is guiding the child, we all know, our strong Mostly, the body will “overbearing ” to block the child’s wishes, children’s hobbies, children’s emotions ... When love becomes deprived of and tie down, it is controlled. Therefore, the true love of parents is to be able to back in time, after all, education should have originally been a child-oriented one.