１９９５年１月的一天，我收到一封来自英国社会保障机构儿童福利办公室的信，其中提到一个我从没听说过的词：仲裁会议。 那时我带儿子来英已有半年，正在申请儿童福利补贴。按当时英国的规定，凡是未成年子女，不管其父母是本国人还是外国人，是长期居民还是短期逗留，只要随 One day in January 1995, I received a letter from the Child Welfare Office of the British Social Security Agency, referring to a word that I have never heard of before: an arbitration conference. At that time, I took my son to Britain for half a year and is applying for child welfare allowance. According to British regulations at that time, all minor children, regardless of their parents are foreigners or foreigners, long-term residents or short-term stay, as long as