我不善交往,又是个对交友有洁癖的人,所以朋友不多,但均经得起生活和时间检验,足以引为知己。人近不惑,交友更为慎重,往来者多为老友故交。与永涛却是新友。我与他虽同生活于新疆,却直到2010年秋天才在鲁迅文学院相见。永涛怀揣真心,为人坦荡,待人诚挚,是个能为知己者死的人,相处不久,即有相见恨晚的感觉,如同故友,恍若走失多年又彼此找见的兄弟。其实,在此之前,我曾在《诗刊》《星星》《诗潮》等刊读过他的诗歌,记得有首诗就叫在《在清风中独 I am not good at socializing, and I am a man who has a tendency to make friends. So I have not many friends, but I can stand the tests of life and time enough to be friends. Nearly perplexed, more cautious friends, contacts and more for the sake of old friends. And Tao is a new friend. Although living with him in Xinjiang, I did not meet with Lu Xun’s Literary School until the fall of 2010. Yongtao carries true, honest, sincere, is a person who can die for the sake of friends, get along soon, that is, the feeling of hate, as friends, reminding us of the scenes and lost for many years to see each other brother. In fact, before that, I had read his poems in “Poetry,” “Star,” “Poetic Tide,” and I remember having a poem called "