昨天跟闺蜜一起吃饭,聊到在一段关系里什么是重要的。看得顺眼、三观一致、能彼此欣赏,除了这些比较常见的诉求,我们同时提到了一点:情绪稳定。在一个情绪稳定的人身边,你会感到安全,他的稳定会激起你情绪里特别美好的地方。并不是说不会生气、难过、沮丧,而是当这些让你感受不好的情绪出现时,你也可以很好地处理。然而,安静地说话、好好地说话其实并不容易。 Yesterday, eating with girlfriends, talk about what is important in a relationship. Seeing pleasing to the eye, consistent with the three views, can appreciate each other, in addition to these more common appeals, we also mentioned a little: emotional stability. You will feel safe in the midst of an emotionally stable person, and his stability will stir up a particularly beautiful place in your emotions. It does not mean that you are not upset, sad, frustrated, but you can handle it well when these emotions make you feel bad. However, it is not easy to speak quietly and to speak properly.