有人认为家长敬业与子女成才是“鱼与熊掌”不可兼得的。持这种观点的家长,或为了工作而疏于对子女的教育;或为教育子女花费全部精力而自己在工作上不思进取,这对家庭对社会都是极大的损失,必须予以修正。 家长如果吃喝玩乐,不顾子女教育,肯定会受到社会谴责。但如 Some people think that parental dedication and children’s success are “fish and bear’s paw” can not have both. Parents who hold this view, or neglect to educate their children for work, or work hard to educate their children for self-improvement, will have to make enormous losses to their families and society and must be amended. Parents who eat or drink, regardless of their children’s education, will certainly be condemned by the community. But like