[例1] 肖××,女,51岁,左乳术后局部及肺转移,夫妇为大学教师,平日感情好,患者住院治疗期间,丈夫一直陪护。后期患者出现气喘、呼吸困难,阵发性加重时,丈夫日夜守护,体力和精神上都非常疲劳,当患者症状缓解时,丈夫才得以外出和小憩,有时患者输液渗漏,则责怪其丈夫对她照顾不细心,造成心理上不愉快,我们发现这一现象后,立即用同情的语言安慰他们,并列举其丈夫平日对她关心体贴和细心照顾的实例,说明陪护病人是一项既辛劳又有责任的工作,陪伴同样需要适当的休息和社会活动,夫妻双方均需相互理解和体谅等,夫妇俩愉快地笑了,更加深了双方的感情,同时也对我们的护理工作绽开了满意的笑容。 [Example 1] Xiao × ×, female, 51 years old, local and pulmonary metastases left and right after the surgery, the couple are university teachers, good feelings on weekdays, patients during hospitalization, her husband has been accompanied. Late stage patients with asthma, dyspnea, paroxysmal exacerbation, her husband day and night guarding, physical and mental fatigue are very strong, when the patient’s symptoms ease, the husband was able to go out and rest, and sometimes leakage of infusion patients, then blame her husband She took care not to be psychologically unhappy. When we discovered this phenomenon, we immediately comforted them in a sympathetic language and cite examples of caring and considerate care her always had for her husband, explaining that patient care was both laborious and Responsible work, accompanied by the same need for appropriate rest and social activities, both husband and wife need mutual understanding and understanding, etc., the couple laughed happily, but also deepened the feelings of both parties, but also our care work bloom a happy smile .