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刘女士是琼海人,今年40岁,她说,最近她的宝贝女儿莉莉(化名)让她头疼不已,女儿经常背着父母去找亲属借钱,结果后来亲属都找上门来催促还钱,她和丈夫才知道了女儿借钱的事情。在父母的再三遍问下,莉莉终于承认跟亲属借的钱都花在给自己买高档的衣服和化妆品上了。刘女士说,她和丈夫共生育了3个子女。莉莉是老大,今年16岁,现在海口一所中学念高一。莉莉从小自尊心强,有虚荣心理,特别好面子,不能客观地评价自己。每次学校考试后,父母问她考得怎么样,她就随口说,考90分没有问题,可是等成绩出来,她的分数一股都是刚好及格而已。父母问她为什么不说实话,她回答,“我要是说我考得不理想,人家会笑话你们和我的,我在你们和别人面前多丢人呀,难
Ms. Qiong, a 40-year-old woman from Qionghai, said that her baby daughter Lily (a pseudonym) recently made her have a headache. Her daughter often borrowed money from her parents to find relatives. As a result, relatives came to urging them to repay their money. She and her husband did not know her daughter borrowed money. As parents repeatedly asked, Lily finally admitted that money borrowed from her relatives was spent on buying upscale clothes and cosmetics for themselves. Ms. Liu said she and her husband have 3 children in total. Lily is the boss, 16 years old this year, now a high school in Haikou, a high school. Lili childhood self-esteem, vanity, particularly good face, can not objectively evaluate themselves. After each school exam, parents asked her how to test, she casually said that no problem with 90 points, but scores, she scores just pass. Parents asked her why she did not tell the truth, she replied, ”I would say if I test is not ideal, people will laugh at you and me, I am more shame in front of you and others ah, hard