人们常常把离婚看成是旧生活的彻底结束,把离婚作为解脱心灵痛苦的唯一有效措施。其实,事实绝非如此。虽然通过离婚婚姻关系,但并不意味着痛苦从此不复返。恰恰相反,现实告诉我们,离婚有可能会陷入感情和心理的新危机。 自卑心理 离婚对当事人来说,往往是一次不小的人生打击,必然会在一定范围内产生震动。从他们踏上离婚之路开始,就在荆棘和泥潭中挣扎,使他们难以昂首挺胸做人。如果长久在自卑的重压下生活,人的心灵会扭曲,会感到万念俱灰,一蹶不振。 孤僻心理 离婚者常常有意无意地将心里的痛苦埋得更深。他们不愿意,实际上也难以做到与正常人进行心灵沟通。离婚后的独身者,从形式上看,似乎又回到了单身生活形态,但他们的内心世界早巳不像以前那样轻松、愉快。他们心中已有许多无法对人言说的愁苦和哀怨。这种精神上和感情上的自我封闭,极有害手心理健康,也会 People often regard divorce as a complete end to the old life, using divorce as the only effective measure to relieve the suffering of the soul. In fact, the fact is not the case. Although divorce through marriage, but does not mean that suffering will never return. On the contrary, the reality tells us that divorce may fall into a new crisis of emotion and psychology. Inferiority Divorce to the parties, is often a big hit in life, is bound to produce a certain range of shock. From the moment they embarked on the road to divorce, they struggled in thorns and quagmire, making it hard for them to hold their heads high and raise their heads. If long-term living under the pressure of inferiority, people’s minds will be distorted, will feel all over the world, a sluggish. Lonely psychology divorce often intentionally or unintentionally, the heart of the pain buried deeper. They do not want to, in fact, it is difficult to achieve spiritual communication with normal people. After the divorce, the single people seem to have returned to single life form formally, but their inner world has not been as relaxed and pleasant as before. There are many sorrows and plaintive hearts in their hearts that can not be spoken to. This mental and emotional self-enclosed, extremely harmful to mental health, will be