中国人的情感表达,大多很含蓄,比如钱这个问题,比如爱这件事情。大多数家庭的父母,都会竭尽全力为孩子营造一个无菌的成长环境,很少会有家长在孩子面前吵架、有亲热动作或者更进一步的行为,更不会抱怨自己工作的辛苦,赚钱的不易,极力为孩子打造一个恒温的真空。其实,每一个正常的家庭,做父母的都会有亲热动作和吵架行为,食色性也,这像吃饭和穿衣一样正常。可是在传统家庭里,这些 Chinese emotional expression, most of them are subtle, such as money this issue, such as love this thing. Most parents in families will try their best to create a sterile growth environment for their children. Few parents will quarrel with their children, have intimacy, or take further actions. They will not complain about the hard work and hard earned money. , Trying hard to create a constant vacuum for children. In fact, every normal family, parents will have intimacy and quarrel behavior, food color also, it is as normal as eating and dressing. But in the traditional family, these