如果只有自己一个人,在各种场合我总能习惯性地做到自律,但是人一多就会碍于面子随波逐流。比如,外出学习,大家时常会选择靠后的座位,以方便聊天、玩手机打发时间或者中途开溜,结果导致大家都收获甚微。能不能试着打破局面?也许拨一下桨,船就会改变方向。有一次,我和两个同事去听一场名师讲座,在宾馆用完早餐后,我和同事打了声招呼便提前赶往会场。当时,前两排的座位已经被占满了,我发现第三排还有两个空位,便央求 If I am alone, I will always be able to exercise self-discipline in all kinds of situations. However, if I am alone, I will not be able to follow my example. For example, go out to study, we often choose the seat behind, in order to facilitate chatting, playing the phone to pass the time or halfway, resulting in everyone gain little. Can try to break the situation? Maybe dial a paddle, the boat will change direction. Once, my colleague and two colleagues went to listen to a famous lecture. After the hotel ran out of breakfast, my colleagues and I called and rushed to the venue early. At that time, the seats in the first two rows were already full, and I found that there were still two vacancies in the third row.