如果你总觉得孩子太胆小,不敢在人前说话,不妨回忆一下:是不是你替他说得太多了呢?上周末,我带着4岁的沫沫去参加一场同学聚会。饭桌上,已经为人父母的老友们免不了把话题转向孩子,所以沫沫不可避免地成为了聚会中的焦点。“沫沫今年几岁啦?”“有没有上幼儿园啊?”“沫沫喜欢吃这个菜吗?”“更喜欢爸爸还是妈妈呀?”诸如此类的问题,一个接一个地抛出来。在多年未见的好友面前,我当然想展现孩子完美的一面,希望别人眼中的 If you always feel that children are too timid to speak in front of people, may wish to recall: Did you put too much for him? Last weekend, I took a 4-year-old bubble to attend a class reunion. At the dinner table, parents who have already had parents are inevitably turning their attention to children, so the bubble inevitably becomes the focus of the party. “” M foam is how old this year? “” There is no kindergarten ah? “” Momo like to eat this dish? “” More like father or mother? “” Such problems, a Throw it out In the face of friends I have not seen for many years, of course I want to show the perfect side of the children and hope that in the eyes of others