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一般而言,女人很少对自己的丈夫保守秘密,但性秘密却是例外。例如,别的男人对自己的吸引、自己的性幻想、夫妻性事难如人意、婚外恋等等,女人往往是闭口不谈的。但女人怎样处理这些问题,却直接影响到自己的婚姻。这些问题谈或不谈,常会令人左右为难。若吐露这些秘密,是有益还是有害婚姻?也许,这种坦诚一时会伤害丈夫感情,但从长远看却有好处?下面的这些例子,是我在婚姻咨询中获悉的(例中人物全用化名),对它们加以分析总结,将会对你有所教益。 1.婚外的异性吸引 “我办公室里有个很帅的同事,对我很有吸引力”29岁的设计员伊冯娜说。“但
In general, women seldom keep secrets about their husbands, but sexual secrets are the exception. For example, other men are attracted to themselves, their own sexual fantasies, unpleasant sexual intercourse, extramarital affairs, etc., women are often silent about. But how women deal with these problems has a direct impact on their marriage. Talk about these issues or not, often daunting. If it is profitable or harmful to disclose these secrets? Perhaps this kind of frankness will hurt the feelings of the husband in the long run, but will it be beneficial in the long run? Here are some examples of what I learned from the marriage counseling ), Analyze them and summarize them, will teach you something. 1. Extramarital attraction of extramarital affairs ”There is a very handsome colleague in my office that is attractive to me,“ said Yvonne, 29, a designer. ”but