小杨在单位里积极向上,礼貌待人,多次被评为先进工作者,还担任了车间主任。可是一回到家里,他就像变了一个人,时常无端地对家人发脾气,影响了和家人之间的感情。小杨认为,跟家人不必讲礼貌,想怎样就怎样。其实,和家人相处也要讲究艺术,需要纠正以下错误观念: 家人是供自己宣泄坏脾气的替罪羊 某个家庭成员的情绪恶劣,会引发家庭其他成员的不安情绪,或造 Xiao Yang positive in the unit, polite people, repeatedly been rated as advanced workers, also served as the workshop director. However, once he got back home, he became like a man who often lost his temper to his family, affecting his feelings with his family. Xiao Yang believes that with his family do not have to polite, like what to do. Actually, getting along with family members also needs to pay attention to the art and needs to correct the following mistaken ideas: the family members are the bad mood of a family member who vent their own bad-tempered scapegoat and may cause unease among other family members or