家庭成员之间的亲密相处是教育孩子的重要条件。 问:我的小孩儿今年上小学四年级了,由于我和爱人之间在孩子教育方面存在的差异,令我非常苦恼。简单说,他的父亲是那种简单粗暴型,虽然他也很爱孩子,但动辙就用通常是对成年人的语言来斥责、谩骂他。我已无力改变他的父亲,我很为孩子性格的发展担忧,更令我担忧的是父亲的语言潜移默化地影响了孩子。您说我应该怎么办? Getting intimately with family members is an important condition for educating children. Q: My child is in the fourth grade of primary school this year. I am very distressed due to the differences in children’s education between me and my lover. To put it simply, his father was of the simple, rude type. Although he loved children too much, he was rebuked and verbally accused in a language usually used for adults. I have been unable to change his father, I am very worried about the development of children’s character, but what worries me more is my father’s language subtly affects the child. What should I do when you say that?