编前话:如今,对很多家长来说,培养孩子的竞争意识和竞争能力已成为家庭教育的重要内容。竞争意识是指对外界活动所做出的积极、奋发、不甘落后的心理反应。很多父母通过各种措施鼓励孩子参与竞争。但是,如果盲目地鼓励孩子竞争,却没有让孩子了解竞争的意义,非但不会起到推进作用,还会扭曲孩子的心灵,甚至从此改变人生的轨迹。本文主人公的真实故事或许会带给许多家长以警醒…… Editor: Today, for many parents, to develop children’s sense of competition and competitiveness has become an important part of family education. Competition awareness refers to the active, active and unwilling psychological reactions to external activities. Many parents encourage their children to compete through various measures. However, if children are blindly encouraged to compete but their children are not informed of the significance of competition, they will not only promote but also distort the child’s mind and even change their life trajectory. The true story of the protagonist in this article may give many parents a wake-up call ...