某公花甲大寿，备宴邀友小聚，且拒绝一切馈赠。10年过去，朋友中有满花甲的，也有过了七十大寿的，竟无一人邀他赴寿宴，大疑。后探询得知．老友都办过庆寿宫．只因他生日拒礼，谅他赴别人寿宴亦不会备利，故不相邀。某人实行家庭改革，减了老父的口粮。天真的儿子不解，问； A male flirtatious birthday, dinner feast invited friends, and refused all gifts. In the past 10 years, there was a full-fledged friend in a friend. There was also a seventieth birthday, and nobody invited him to a birthday feast. After the inquiry learned. Friends have done celebrations Shou Gong. Just because his birthday is not ritual, forgive him to other people’s birthday will not be prepared, it is not invited. Someone practicing family reform, reducing his father’s rations. Naive son puzzled, asked;