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上帝赐予我们每个人的时间是有限的。如何使短暂而有限的生命燃烧出尽可能多的光彩,这需要我们思考如何有效地经营自己。有关如何经营自己的见解有很多,可以说仁者见仁,智者见智。在我看来经营自己首先需要我们具有把握自己生命周期关键点的意识。如果能把握好自己生命周期中的几个关键点,我们就可以节省一大笔生命的开销。真的是“人生的路很长,紧要处只有几步”。一位学者曾经指出,沿着年龄阶段的线索,我们的一生交织在由三个生命周期构成的心理——社会——生活空间当中。这三个生命周期分别是生物--生命周期、工作--职业周期以及家庭--生活周期。在每一个生命周期的关键点上,我们需要完成一些关键性的重要人生任务。这些任务具有很大的挑战性,会给我们带来很大的压力,需要我们尽最大努力去应对。如果应对成功,我们将得到积极发展并对我们人生下一阶段的发展产生积极影响;如果应对失败,就会产生各种问题,这些问题将对我们人生下一阶段的发展带来不利影
The time God gives us each is limited. How to make a short and limited life burn as much glory, which requires us to think about how to effectively manage their own. There are many opinions on how to run your own business. In my opinion, managing yourself requires, first of all, our awareness of the key points in our life cycle. If we can grasp a few key points in our life cycle, we can save a lot of life overhead. Really is “a long way to life, where only a few steps tight.” As one scholar once pointed out, along the clues of our age, our entire life is interwoven in the psycho-social-living space formed by three life cycles. These three life cycles are the biological life cycle, work-career cycle and family life cycle. At each of our life-cycle key points, we need to accomplish some key, vital life tasks. These tasks have great challenges, will give us a lot of pressure, we need to do our utmost to deal with. If the response is successful, we will have positive developments and have a positive impact on the development of our next stage of our lives. If we fail to deal with them, we will have various problems that will have a negative impact on the next stage of our lives.