亲爱的心曲姐姐:您好!我儿子今年读初三了,成绩很差。儿子从小说话就晚,遇到任何事情都拿不定主意,都是我们替他做决定。我们给他报了很多的特长班,效果都不好。他性格温顺,我们不让他出去玩,他就老实呆在家里。我们也是知识分子,他的表姐表哥们也都考上了很好的大学。我们觉得很没面子,您能帮帮我吗?一位心急的妈妈 Dear heart song sister: Hello! My son read the third grade this year, poor grades. His son spoke from an early age, encountered any uncertainties, we make decisions for him. We reported to him a lot of specialty classes, the effect is not good. He was gentle and we did not let him go out and play. He just stayed at home honestly. We are also intellectuals, his cousin cousin who also admitted to a good university. We feel very faceless, can you help me? An impatient mother