清代著名诗人、书画家郑板桥,曾写过一个条幅“难得糊涂”。自然,这里“糊涂”指的是心理上的一种自我修养,是指明白事理、胸怀开阔、宽以待人,也就是“宰相肚里能撑船”之意。这不仅仅是处事的一种态度,而且是健康长寿的秘诀之一。生活中的种种矛盾是很难避免的,如果一个人遇 Zheng Banqiao, a famous poet and calligrapher in the Qing Dynasty, once wrote a banner “a rare confused”. Naturally, here “confused” refers to a psychological self-cultivation, refers to understand things, open-minded, lenient to others, that is, “Prime Minister belly to punting” meaning. This is not just an attitude toward doing things, but also one of the keys to health and longevity. All kinds of contradictions in life are hard to avoid if one encounters