西美尔在《货币哲学》一书中将货币和货币经济作为一种社会文化现象,探究其影响下的现代人的内心生活和社会生活。随着时间的推移,货币经济对现代人际关系的异化程度并没有消退。尤其是网络时代到来后,表现更加明显。本文从《货币哲学》视域出发,试对现代社会人际关系中的“感觉麻木”、“外向型孤独”现象进行探究,并尝试提出自己的思考,寻求心态的平衡。 Simmel, in his book Monetary Philosophy, regards the monetary and monetary economy as a social and cultural phenomenon and explores the modern life and social life under the influence of it. With the passage of time, the degree of alienation of the modern interpersonal relationship by the monetary economy has not diminished. Especially after the advent of the Internet era, the performance is even more obvious. From the perspective of “monetary philosophy”, this paper tries to explore the phenomenon of “numbness” and “extroverted loneliness” in the interpersonal relationships in modern society and tries to put forward their own thinking and seek the balance of mentality.