人们普遍认为,人老了各方面的能力都会明显下降。家里人为了不让老人累着、伤着,往往连他们力所能及的事也包办了。老人为了维护自己的尊严,显示自己的能力,即使感到力不从心,也要奋力去做一些困难的事,以此取得周围人的认可。另外,人到老年,性格中的开放性成分也会有所降低。有些老人不愿接受新事物,不愿改变自己的看法。跟不上时代,自然和周围的人沟通有障碍;不愿承认自己落伍,自然就让人觉得执拗、倔强。面对倔强的老人,我们首先要检查自己是否低估 It is generally believed that the ability of people to be old in all aspects will be significantly reduced. In order to keep the elderly from getting tired and hurting, the family often arranged things that they could within their means. In order to safeguard their own dignity, the elderly show their ability to work hard to do something difficult even if they feel powerless, thus obtaining the approval of the people around them. In addition, the elderly, the character of the open components will also be reduced. Some elderly people are reluctant to accept new things and do not want to change their minds. Can not keep up with the times, nature and the surrounding people have obstacles to communication; do not want to admit that they are out of date, naturally make people feel stubborn and stubborn. In the face of stubborn elderly, we must first check whether they underestimate