本论文旨在中日文化中发邮件时“拒绝方式”的异同,并对其原因进行分析。本文以“拒绝方式”为中心,把邮件和中日语言文化两个焦点结合起来,有别于以往的研究论文,从独特的视角,对中国人和日本人的邮件往来进行问卷调查,找出中日语言文化的共通点和区别所在。 This thesis aims at the similarities and differences of “rejecting way” when sending mail in the Sino-Japanese culture, and analyzes the reason. This paper focuses on “rejecting means” and combines the two focuses of e-mail with the Sino-Japanese language culture. Different from the previous research papers, from a unique perspective, this paper conducts a questionnaire survey on the correspondence between Chinese and Japanese, Identify the common points and differences between Chinese and Japanese language and culture.