当孩子遇到困难、挫折、失败时,伴随而来的常是紧张、不安、悲伤、恐惧甚至丧失信心等一系列心理冲击。面对这种情况,家长应采取有效方法,帮助孩子消除心理障碍,树立信心。首先,要让孩子叙述遇到的困难、挫折、失败的经过,倾吐积聚在心中的沮丧,畅谈自己的感受、认识,那怕是错误的观点。其次,要帮助孩子分析造成困难、挫折、失败的主客观两方面原因,寻找出一种或几种解决问题的途径。 When children encounter difficulties, setbacks and failures, they often come with a series of psychological shocks such as tension, anxiety, sadness, fear and even loss of confidence. Faced with this situation, parents should take effective measures to help children eliminate psychological barriers and build confidence. First of all, let the children narrate the difficulties encountered, setbacks, failures, pour frustration accumulated in the heart, talk about their feelings, understanding, even if it is wrong point of view. Second, to help children analyze the causes of subjective and objective difficulties, frustrations and failures, to find one or several ways to solve the problem.