常常有家长以羡慕、奇怪的口吻对我说:“真怪!我的孩子在家里谁的话都不听;一进学校老师要他怎么做他就怎么做,脾气也不犟了。真不知道老师的法宝是什么?”事实确也如此,许多孩子在家里很任性,在学校却规矩听话,判若两人。为什么同一个孩子在学校和在家里表现如此不同呢?如果我们认真分析一下其中原因,对那些为孩子任性而发愁的父母 Often, parents say to me enviously and strangely, “Strange! My boy does not listen to anyone at home; he does not have the temper to go to school when he wants him to do what he does What is the magic weapon to know the teacher? ”The fact is true, many children are self-willed at home, but the rules in the school obedient, ruled the two. Why is the same child behaving differently at school and at home? If we take a hard look at the reasons why parents who are worried about their own waywardness