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如果雄辩可以得天下的话,倾听则能够守天下。 雄辩所能展示的风光,无论有多强的感染力,仍免不了语言的局限。倾听则能够在滔滔的话语瀑布中发现一个人隐秘的心语。 没有人会把自己的内心世界完全暴露给别人,也没有人能够不让自己的愿望从言语中流露出来。因此,了解别人最好的方式就是倾听。 倾听需要一种动力。 心浮气躁的人,也是耳目闭塞的人,有多少生活的真谛离他们远去,他们却全然不知。不善倾听的人,是因为没有一副胸怀能容进别人的声音。他们急于表达,如同建设一处又一处半途而废的工程。
If you can eloquently have the world, then listen to the world. Eloquence can show the scenery, no matter how strong the appeal, still can not avoid the language limitations. Listening is able to find a hidden secret words in the surging waterfall. No one will completely expose their own inner world to others, no one can not let their wishes from words to reveal it. So, the best way to learn about others is to listen. Listening requires a motivation. Impatient people, but also people with closed eyes, how much life goes away from them, but they do not know. Poor people who listen because there is no one mind can tolerate the voice of others. They are anxious to express themselves as if they were building another project that was halfway through.