我在作心理咨询的时候，一位家长朋友向我诉苦道：“我那上初二的儿子这阵子可让人头疼了，你说往东，他非要往西，越来越不听话了。这不，暑假里你越说该起床了，他越赖在床上不动；你越说电视看多了不好，他越盯住电视不动弹；你越想给他讲讲道理，他越说不用你管……您说， When I was doing psychological counseling, a parent friend complained to me: "My son on the second day can be a headache, and you say that he must go east and get disobedient This does not mean that the more you get up in the summer vacation, the more he rests on the bed. The more you say TV looks bad, the more he watches the television, the more you want to tell him the truth. Say you do not ... You say,