阳具的“权力”在长篇小说《相爱不说再见》中,尔容对男人的虚伪和放荡是宽容的,对于男人“阳具权力”的泛滥,尔容往往能够为他们找出许多“人性需求”的理由。至少是默认了“阳具权力”的合理性。铁娃与心泪温馨的婚床,表面上看是一个爱情神话的圆满结局,是一种文学意义上爱情“补偿性愿望”的实现,实际上却是对“阳具权力”的一次无奈的妥胁。在传统男性中心批评的模式中,女性主义的批评,旨在挖掘隐匿于历史和潜意识之 In the novel Love Without Saying Goodbye, Errong is tolerant to the hypocrisy and debauchery of men. For the proliferation of men, Err may often find many “Human needs ” reason. At least the default “power of penis ” rationality. Tiewan and heart tears warm marriage bed, on the surface is a successful conclusion of a love myth, is a kind of literary sense of love “compensatory desire ” in fact, it is A helpless threat. In the mode of criticism of the traditional male center, feminist criticism aims to excavate the historical and subconscious