“结束一条道路的唯一办法,就是走完它。这便是离婚教我的事。”这是一位经历离婚,并重获幸福的外企女高管告诉我们的心灵治愈处方。原谅自己刚离婚时,我对着闺蜜们把他批得狗血淋头,别人问,“那你当初为什么跟他在一起?”这个问题我至今不知如何回答,而且让我觉得自己很蠢。我曾认为婚姻的过失方主要是对方(尽管这不一定是事实),但这仍然无法避免我产生最难受的感觉—后悔。离婚后,比起纠结原不原谅对方,原谅自己更有用。选过了,努力过了,发现不行,退出。谁不犯错呢?承认自己婚姻失败,是原谅 “The only way to end a road is to finish it, and this is what divorce taught me.” “This is a cure for the soul told us by a foreign executives who have experienced divorce and have regained happiness. Forgive myself just divorced, I gave his girlfriend who criticized him for blood, others asked, ”Then why did you with him?“ ”I still do not know how to answer this question, and make me feel very stupid. I used to think that the wrong side of marriage is mainly the opposite party (although this is not necessarily the case), but it still can not avoid the worst feeling I have - regret. After divorce, than for the original did not forgive each other, forgive yourself more useful. Elected, worked hard, found no, quit. Who does not make mistakes? To admit that his marriage failed, is forgiven