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面对刚刚举行完钻石婚纪念仪式的鹏飞、贞红两位老人,我忍不住问了一句:“爱情如此长久的秘诀是什么?”鹏飞老人反问我:“每天你不睡觉行不行?”我摇了摇头,老人慈祥地笑了:“每天让爱情睡一会儿,爱情才会更精力充沛。”老人始终忘不了这样一件事,那是1928年,刚结婚不到两年的小夫妻俩差点离婚,原因就是夫妻俩太看重爱情的虚幻与飘渺了,梦想自己也是童话中的王子和公主,整日里谈情说爱,重复着不知说了千遍万遍的悄悄话。长辈也曾劝过他们,爱情也需要休息。但他们却认为那是对爱情的亵渎。当他们真的冷静下来,才发觉自己身上已没有一点爱意,过去那如痴如醉的爱也如冬天的梦境一样荒凉。这件事使这对夫妇意识到爱的浪漫是短暂的,实实在在的婚姻才是长久的。不懂得让爱情好好睡上一觉的人,既不会长久地爱别人,也不会始终如一地
In the face of the just held diamond memorial ceremony of Pengfei, Zhenhong two elderly, I could not help but asked: “What is the secret of love so long?” Pengfei elderly asked me: “Every day you do not Sleep okay? ”I shook my head, the old man kindly laughed: “ Love to sleep for a while every day, love will be more energetic. ”The elderly always forget such a thing, it was 1928, just married Less than two years old couple almost divorced, the reason is that the couple too value the illusion of love and misty, the dream is also the prince and princess in the fairy tale, talk and say love all day long, I do not know repeated thousands of times Private whisper. Elders have also advised them, love also need rest. But they think it is a desecration of love. When they were really calm, they realized that they had no love, and that the past, the mesmerizing love, was as desolate as the winter’s dream. This incident made the couple realize the romance of love is short, real marriage is long-term. People who do not know how to make love sleep well will neither love others forever nor will they consistently