你的赞美,对孩子影响有多大?韩国的古书,说过一个小故事。一位名叫黄喜的相国,微服出访,路过一片农田,坐下来休息,瞧见农夫驾着两头牛正在耕地,便问农夫,你这两头牛,哪一头更棒呢?农夫看着他,一言不发。等耕到了地头,牛到一旁吃草,农夫附在黄喜的耳朵边,低声细气地说:“告诉你吧,边上那头牛更好一些。” Your praise, how much impact on children? South Korea’s ancient books, said a little story. A man named Huang Xi, who visits Xu Wei, passes through a field of farmland, takes a rest, and sees that the farmer drives two cows in arable land. Then he asks the farmer, which of the two cows is better? The farmer looks at him Without saying Plowed to the ground and other plows, grazing cattle aside, the farmer attached to the ears of Huang Xi, whisper said: “Tell you, the other side of the cow is better. ”