其实人这一生有什么样的朋友直接反映他是一个什么样的为人,好朋友就是一本书,他可以打开你的整个世界,也就是我们经常说的物以类聚人以群分。你只要观察他的社交圈子,从这样一个外在环境是可以看到他自己内心价值取向的。孔子说:在这个世界上,益者三友,损者三友;友直、友谅、友多闻,益矣;友偏辟、友善柔、友便妄,损矣。先说三种好朋友,所谓益者三友就是友直、友谅、友多闻。也就是说第一,这个朋友为人要正直、要坦荡、要刚正不阿,一个人不能有谄媚之色,要有一种朗朗人格,在这个世界上顶天立地,这是一种好朋友。因为他的人格可以反映你的人格,他可以在你 In fact, what kind of friends in this life directly reflect what kind of person he is, good friend is a book, he can open your whole world, that is, we often say that things like to get together in groups. As long as you observe his social circle, from such an external environment you can see his own inner value orientation. Confucius said: In this world, beneficiaries of the three friends, losers three friends; friends straight, friendship, friends and more, benefit carry on; First of all, said three kinds of good friends, the so-called beneficiary of three friends is straight, friendship, friends and more. In other words, the first is that this friend should be honest, openly, upright and honest, that one should not have flattering colors, one must have a brilliant personality and be exemplary in this world. This is a good friend. Because his personality can reflect your personality, he can be with you