我们对孩子的教育似乎进入了一个矫枉过正的时代。从以往多子女家庭忽略子女的生存状态,到现在独生子女家庭过于关注子女,时代造成的教育弊病频频出现。前段时间一位母亲带孩子过来咨询。其实孩子很好,聪明礼貌懂事,是母亲对于孩子的教育方式过于刻板。她一直按照所谓“科学育儿”的方法来对待孩子,缺乏对孩子内心情感的关注,不去根据孩子成长中的需求来为孩子提供成长的条件,结果导致孩子对她非常反感。 Our education of our children seems to have entered an era of overcorrection. From the past, many families ignored the living conditions of their children, and now one-child families are too concerned about their children. The educational deficiencies caused by the times are frequent. Some time ago a mother came with the child consultation. In fact, children are good, smart and sensible, is the mother’s way of teaching children too stereotyped. She has been treating children according to the so-called “scientific childcare ” method. She lacks the concern about children’s inner feelings and does not provide children with growth conditions according to the needs of children’s growing up. As a result, the children are very resentful to her.