邻居家有个读四年级的小学生,酷爱美术,在画画方面很有天分。可是,其母坚决不准孩子画画,非让孩子学弹琴。孩子学不好,母亲又是骂又是打。老师发现后开导这位母亲说:“要尊重孩子的兴趣、爱好。”这位母亲却说:“什么兴趣、爱好,孩子就是‘泥人张’手里的那团泥,大人想捏个啥样就捏个啥样。孩子懂啥?难道家长还会给孩子亏吃?”“孩子是家长手中的一团泥”,正是凭主观意志培养孩子的一些家长的共同想法,也是这些家长教子失败的重要原因。我们知道,孩子是有个性的独立的人,孩子参加课外活动 There is a fourth grade pupil in the neighborhood who loves fine arts and is very talented in painting. However, their mother insisted that children should not draw, not let children learn to play the piano. Children learn bad mother is scolding and fight. After the teacher discovered that the mother said: “We should respect the child’s interest and hobby.” The mother said: “What hobbies and hobbies, the child is the clay mud in the hands of the group of mud, adults want to pinch Pinch what kind of. Children know what? Is the parents will give their children ate loss? ”“ The child is the hands of the parents of a mud ”, it is subjective with the common belief that some parents cultivate children, but also these parents teach children failed important reason. We know that children are independent individuals and children participate in extracurricular activities