世上没有绝对笔直的路。所以人之一生,必然要走许多弯路。曲曲弯弯,正是社会发展和自然景观的常态。在改革开放的年代里,许多旧有的“辙儿”不灵了,各行各业都在“转轨变型”,各阶层人士的人生之路,也常常需要拐点弯儿,这都是很正常的。 最近朋友相聚,品评周围人士时,往往要说到一句话:“他呀,太不会拐弯了,如今吃不开罗！”这也牵扯一个“拐弯儿”的问题。后来听人们说得多了,难免引发了笔者的思索。据我观察,许多不会“拐弯儿”的人中,细分起来,还 There is no absolute straight road in the world. Therefore, one’s life is bound to go many detours. Twists and turns, it is normal social development and natural landscape. In the era of reform and opening up, many of the old “ruts” are not working, all walks of life are “transitional”, and the lifestyles of people from all walks of life often need to turn their corner. This is all normal . Recent friends together, when people around the assessment, often have to say a word: “He, too will not turn, and now eat Cairo!” It also involves a “turning point” issue. Later, to hear people say much, it inevitably triggered the author’s thinking. According to my observation, many people who do not turn their heads are subdivided and returned