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不要逼对方说话 当对方沉默时,逼其说话易造成他更沉默或发脾气。你不妨开诚布公地说:“我不知道做了什么错事,让你不愿和我说话。” 转移注意力 用听轻音乐、看电视等娱乐形式,来转移对方的注意力,减轻其心理压力。一旦时过境迁,沉默的冰块便会随之融化。 不要以沉默对付沉默 一方沉默,另一方用沉默作为反攻击,这是一种相当恶劣的沟通方式。应当主动地和对方讨论如何解决有关问题,态度要诚恳,措辞要委婉。 不要用急躁来对付沉默 当不知对方沉默的原因时,你一定要冷静,分清对方的沉默是有意用来攻击
Do not force each other to talk when the other party is silent, forcing him to speak easily lead to his more silent or angry. You might as well openly say: “I do not know what to do wrong, so you do not want to talk to me.” Transfer attention to listen to light music, watching TV and other forms of entertainment to divert each other’s attention and reduce their psychological pressure. Once the passage of time, silent ice will melt with it. Do not silence the silent side of silence, the other side of the silence as a counter attack, which is a very bad way of communication. We should take the initiative to discuss with each other on how to solve the relevant problems. We should adopt a sincere attitude and the wording should be tactful. Do not use impatience to deal with silence When you do not know the reasons for silence, you must be calm, distinguish each other’s silence is intended to attack