年幼时,我们觉得父亲抠门;稍大一些,觉得父亲粗暴;青年时,觉得父亲迂腐;中年时,觉得父亲不够豁达……兄弟姐妹6人。父亲是老幺。父亲一生的悲苦,皆因娶了一个不会持家且胆小怕事的母亲。母亲年轻的时候很爱打扮,20世纪70年代初就烫着大波浪,穿红色的细高跟鞋招摇过街。在一个以朴素著称的年代,父亲觉得丢人,就偷偷藏起那些过于时髦的衣服和鞋子;母亲不挣钱,对钱也没 When young, we think his father stingy; slightly larger, that his father rude; youth, that his father pedantic; middle-aged, that his father was not enough open-minded ... 6 brothers and sisters. My father is old. My father’s misery all the time because of a married mother who would not be afraid of the house and timid. When she was young, her mother loved to dress up. In the early 1970s, she was wearing a big wave and wearing red stiletto heels across the street. In an era of simple and well-known, my father felt shameful, secretly hiding those too fashionable clothes and shoes; mother did not make money, no money