20世纪70年代,曾经流传着军营“四大怪”:腰带扎在外衣外,洗了帽子吹起来晒(解放帽),电影之前拉歌赛,两个小伙谈恋爱。其中两个小伙谈恋爱,描绘的是军营的谈心场面。谈心是彼此交流思想的最有效渠道。英国大文豪萧伯纳说:“假如你手中有一只苹果,我手中有一只苹果,彼此交换一下,那么你我手中仍是各有一只苹果;但是倘若你有一种思想,我有一种思想,彼此交流这些思想,那么,每人将各 1970s, once circulated a barracks ”Four Monsters “: belt tied outside the coat, wash the hat blowing the sun (liberation cap), the song before the song song race, the two guys fall in love. Two of them fell in love, portraying the talk of military camp. Talk is the most effective channel for exchanging ideas with each other. George Bernard Shaw, British writer, said: ”If you have an apple in your hand and an apple in my hand and exchange one another, then you and I still have one apple in my hand; but if you have a thought, I have a mindset to talk to each other These thoughts, then, each one will be different