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孩子在成长过程中出现的很多问题,应理解为家庭成员间关系的问题。本案例中,儿童反映在行为上出现的问题(如针刺手、旷课等)应该被理解为家庭关系出现问题的表现。咨询师从改善母子关系入手,用认知、行为等多种手段辅导儿童及儿童母亲从“冲突→依恋→冲突”的纠缠关系中脱离出来,疏导母亲的焦虑情绪,达到正常的生活状态。
Many problems that arise in children’s development are to be understood as the relationship between family members. In this case, behavioral problems (such as acupuncture, absenteeism, etc.) that children perceive should be understood as manifestations of problems with family relations. Counselors start with improving the relationship between mother and child, using cognitive, behavioral and other means to guide children and children’s mothers from the “conflict → attachment → conflict” detached from the entangled relationship, to ease the anxiety of the mother to reach the normal state of life .