近日,笔者读了《黄守愚和他的“忏悔堂”》(《清风》杂志2016年第9期)一文,收获颇多,在了解了中国忏悔历史的同时,也产生了一些思考。正如该文所言,中国古代有忏悔的传统,但现在并没有得到很好的继承。现在我们也经常讲要勇于认错,不过面对错误时,时常会讲我没做错什么或者这个错误是什么人造成的。所以说,认错这事很难,更不用说指向灵魂深处的忏悔。有些人在传授夫妻相处之道时说,两口子吵架,不管谁对谁错,老公赶紧认错,事情 Recently, I read “Huang Shouyu and his” Confession Hall “(” Breeze "magazine 2016 No. 9) a lot of gains, while understanding the history of China’s confession, but also produced some thinking. As the article argues, ancient China had a tradition of repentance, but it has not been well inherited. Now we often say that we have the courage to admit mistakes, but in the face of mistakes, we often say what I did wrong or who made the mistake. Therefore, admitting this is difficult, not to mention repentance in the depths of the soul. Some people teach the couple to get along the road, said the couple quarrel, no matter who is wrong, my husband quickly admit that things