考比认为,对大多数的人来说,面对压力他们的优先选择分别是:自我、团队、家庭和朋友。也就是说,最不怕死的恐怖分子,在压力增加到一定程度以后,首先考虑的也还是自身的安危。考比坚信自己的理论不会出错:“有一个古老的阿拉伯谚语:让一百个母亲哭泣去吧,只要我的母亲不哭———但让她哭也总比我自己哭好。” For the majority of people, Kobby believes that their priorities for facing stress are: self, team, family and friends. In other words, the terrorists most afraid of death, the pressure increased to a certain extent later, the first consideration is also its own safety. Cowper believes his theory will not go wrong: “There’s an old Arabic saying: let a hundred mothers cry, as long as my mother does not cry - but crying is always better than me.”