除夕之夜,吃过年饭,众兄弟开始各带着妻儿回自己的小家时,我则带着父亲回家过年。母亲已离世五年,年已八十有五的父亲一直独居。不是众兄弟不愿和父亲一起生活,而是父亲清静惯了,已不适应儿孙家的嘈杂和约束。他称自己身体还很硬朗,尚能自己照顾自己,要儿女们给他自由。平时归 New Year’s Eve, ate the New Year’s dinner, the brothers began to bring their wives and children back to their own small home, I was with my father going home New Year. My mother has been dead for five years, and my father, who is 80 years old, has been living alone. It is not the brothers who are unwilling to live with their fathers. Instead, their father is used to being quiet and no longer adapts to the noisy and restrained children and grandchildren. He said he was still fit, able to take care of himself and to give his children freedom. Usually return