提起如何搞好人际关系,不少人往往忽略掉一个最根本的东西——爱心。如果没有爱心,动听的语言就成了花言巧语;典雅的举止就成了虚假的做作;玄妙的诀窍就成了骗人的把戏……。也许有人凭借雕虫小技,能赢得一时的人缘儿。但终归不能长久,因为一个缺乏爱心,对他人视而不见,漠不关心,只有自己,没有别人,只知索取,不知奉献的人,是不会拥有真正的朋友的。社会学家曾对造成人 Mention how to improve interpersonal relationships, many people often overlook one of the most fundamental thing - love. If you do not have love, the beautiful language becomes a rhetoric; the elegant demeanor becomes a fake masterpiece; the mystical trick has become a deception trick .... Some people may rely on carving skills, can win a moment of popularity. But after all, we can not last forever. For a person who lacks love, turns a blind eye to others, indifferent to himself, has no one else, knows only those who seek for it and who do not know it, will not have true friends. Sociologists used to create people