女友近来“活动”多,我问:谁买单?答:他们也买,我也买。我立刻感觉像是自己吃了亏(自己吃了亏也没这么着急),给她讲女人不买单的道理,讲到口干舌燥讲不清,自己也糊涂了。 我先跟她讲:当一个女人肯同一个男人出去,抛头露脸,同他吃饭喝茶聊天,此前她总得换件衣服,收拾收拾,打扮打扮,这本身已是“投入”了……咦,不对,感觉女人像出台的小姐似的;如果这约会本来就是女人提出,甚至,她有求于他(女人出来做事,做到要去求男人、请他、给他买单的地步,这好像也不是什么好事吧);就算经济没问题,个个女孩不买单他都承受得起,但是,凭什么,你也有工作有收入的,——就凭 My girlfriend recently “activities” and more, I asked: Who pays? A: They also buy, I also buy. I immediately felt like I had suffered a loss (I did not eat so much anxiously), told her that women did not pay for the truth, and did not talk about what they were doing. They also confused. I would like to tell her that when a woman is willing to go out with a man and give her a face and chat with him for dinner, she has to change clothes, clean up, dress up and dress up, , Wrong, like a woman like the introduction of the girl like; If this date has always been a woman made, or even, she has to look for him (a woman come out to do things, to seek a man, ask him to pay him the point, it seems Is not a good thing); even if the economy is no problem, all girls can afford to pay without a single, but, depending on what, you also have work income,