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如果你坐等快乐来临,那就大错特错了,因为——有一次,我以《快乐》为题演讲,事后,听众中有位女士站起来说:“要是我丈夫也来听就好了。”她说她深爱丈夫,但丈夫老是很不快乐,和他一起生活着实不容易。这位女士的话,让我想到道理应该是这么讲的:为己为人,要把寻觅快乐当一回事。为了我们的配偶,我们的子女、朋友,我们要尽量快乐。你若不相信我的话,不妨去问问孩子跟不快乐的父母长大是什么滋味;或者问问做父母的,如果他们有一个不快乐的孩子有多痛苦。我的童年生活并不特别快乐,而且跟大多数少年一样沉溺在自己以为的痛苦中。但
If you wait for happiness, it would be a big mistake because - once, I was addressing “happy,” and afterwards, a lady from the audience stood up and said: “If my husband is here to listen ”She said she loved her husband, but her husband is always unhappy, and living with him is not easy. The lady’s words, let me think the truth should be said: for one’s own sake, to find happiness is one thing. For our spouse, our children and friends, we should try our best to be happy. If you do not believe me, you may want to ask your child what it’s like to grow up with unhappy parents, or ask parents if they have an unhappy child with more pain. My childhood is not particularly happy, and as most adolescents indulge in the pain they themselves think. but